I am very sorry for your family's loss. Your brother Joe sounds like he was quite a wonderful guy, and I'm sure he will be terribly missed. Words can offer little consolation on these occasions, but I think these lyrics may be appropriate. They come from one of the last songs written by Warren Zevon before his death in 2003. Regards, Jeff Shadows are falling and I'm running out of breath Keep me in your heart for awhile If I leave you it doesn't mean I love you any less Keep me in your heart for awhile When you get up in the morning and you see that crazy sun Keep me in your heart for awhile There's a train leaving nightly called when all is said and done Keep me in your heart for awhile... ...Hold me in your thoughts, take me to your dreams Touch me as I fall into view When the winter comes keep the fires lit And I will be right next to you... ....Keep me in your heart for awhile.